build: check harder for readline

build: check harder for readline

Not all distros build their readline linked with a termcap library,
since apps are (apparently) supposed to choose one for themselves
and explicitly link to it when using readline.  So add some checks
to figure out whether readline is already linked, and if not, prefer
ncurses since we use that for nmtui already.

ax_lib_readline based off:

http://www.gnu.org/software/autoconf-archive/ax_lib_readline.html